Saturday, November 22, 2008
Saturday, November 8, 2008
Except ye be converted, and become as little children...
I remember when I was little and we watched a movie that showed Jesus having to die on the cross. I think it was a 2 or 3 night movie. The last night, I remember going to bed and just crying wondering how someone so innocent had to die. I was just so upset. I remember asking mom to be sure the movie was right. I could not believe it. I was so broken.
The mind of a child~ we should learn from them.
At the same time came the disciples unto Jesus, saying , Who is the greatest in the kingdom of heaven? And Jesus called a little child unto him , and set him in the midst of them,
And said , Verily I say unto you, Except ye be converted , and become as little children, ye shall not enter into the kingdom of heaven. Whosoever therefore shall humble himself as this little child, the same is greatest in the kingdom of heaven.
Friday, November 7, 2008
17 kids and counting - personal encouragement
I was blessed today to get to speak with Michelle Duggar, the mother of the 17 children on the TV show "17 Kids and Counting" found on the learning channel, TLC. In case you are not familiar, they are expecting their 18th child, home school, and are on a reality show. I got to share with her how her parenting techniques have so encouraged me and her children's comments and stand on certain issues have been a great influence on my kids. From watching the show, I was amazed at her sweet soft voice that approached the children that were needing instruction. Her children even shared how she is always that way, which made me wonder, "How does she do it?" I mean I try! I have even confessed to my children that I was wrong for yelling and how I want to change. I even thought of ways they could help keep me accountable. A couple times I shared with them an idea of getting a "NO YELL BELL" that my children were to go ring if I ever yelled, but we never got around to trying it. Actually after speaking with Michelle, I think I am going to try her method. First she so encouraged me by saying she too used to yell and was convicted that needed to change. She too started asking her children to hold her accountable but in a different way than my bell idea. She asked her children that if she ever yelled that they would come lay a gentle hand on her and remind her gently of her desire not to yell. She said sometimes when they did it at first that their little touch was like hot coals on her, but through time she got past the yelling and no longer deals with it. She made another major change by changing her yell to a whisper. She would remember the verse, "A soft answer turns away wrath." She still does it and does not have to fight the yelling anymore. Well, I am encouraged that I might be able to actually change. I am encouraged that all these things we need to work through are a process. I am glad I was on the right track of asking forgiveness and seeking accountability from my kids. Hey, there is a chance my kids may actually be able to report of me in the sweet way her kids of her. Thanks to Michelle for taking time to minister to me!
Saturday, November 1, 2008
More FL fun

Our co-op friends from FL met us in Alachua while we were in town. We also got to see the
Griffins, but I forgot to take a picture while they were there. I am hoping they send a picture of their family to show Scott how much the kids have grown!
The Bakers shared their awesome seats for N13, my brother Jason and PapaSteve to go to the Gator game. This picture is from their seats in the front row, not zoomed in! They were lovin it!PapaSteve took N13 and D12 fishing one morning on Black Creek.


While we were there, we also did not get a picture at my Uncle Mike's Bday party that was at Aunt Betty's. I hope they send me one. I took my camera in, but never used it. It was good to see them too!
Time was too short! A6 got a BB in his ear. Thanks to N3! We spent a day at the urgent care center, then the ER downtown, then the ENT the next day all to still have that BB in his ear. One good thing came out of it. I got to see Glen and Debbie in the ER with their son! He had strep. When we go to Jacksonville, we try to get in visits with friends. I was going to have to miss seeing them this time unless she could make it to the bowling party. We only got to see my twin neice and nephew for about an hour at the party, so I was dissappointed with how little time we had there. But thanks Jason and Amy for staying until we got there so I could see them! The ER visit made our visit with mom's side of the family so short. Oh well. Next time!
N13 and I had such a short visit for Scott's side of the family. We get to spend time with them in a few weeks, so that is something to look forward to. The younger 4 boys got to stay a whole week and had a blast playing with their cousins and playing in a fort they keep talking about.
D12's B-day and FL pictures
Birthday party bowling and at Grandma and Papa Steve's in FL

The boys acted like they never saw the beach before. Well, 2 of them may not have and M8 did not seem to remember. We were not going to go swimming, but somehow we did. Well, they did while I prayed. They had a blast and we will definately allot for more time next time.


Thursday, October 30, 2008
A N3 Funny
Wednesday, October 15, 2008
So Convicted!
Even if I do good deeds and great things, according to scripture, if I do not have love, I AM NOTHING! Scripture is clear on that. Read for yourself: “Though I speak with the tongues of men & angels, but have not love, I have become as a sounding brass or a clanging cymbal. And though I have the gifts of prophecy and understanding all mysteries and all knowledge, and though I have the faith, so that I could remove mountains, but have not love, I am nothing. And though I bestow all my goods to feed the poor, and though I give my body to be burned, but have not love, it profits me nothing.” 1 Corinthians 13:1-3
It truly convicts me about the part of having faith to move mountains. I have had many unbelievable prayers answered in very clear ways that it was from God, which has increased my faith tremendously. A dear friend of mine once told me the thing she learned from me was faith. I hope to share some of these answered prayers soon to encourage you to pray and remind you what God can do. But my faith is nothing without LOVE! Wow!
But do I have love? When I evaluate the definition of love, I think I am missing it! This is where God has me. I have a lot to learn!
Definition from 1 Cor. 13:4-8
Love suffers long and is kind: I do feel like giving up on people after a while. The world tells us about “tough love” for those who have failed over and over. All of this sudden I am taking that “tough love” idea to God for understanding if that is from him. I like the idea of tough love to be able to lay others burdens off my chest, but is that from God? Not sure yet… new thoughts here. As for the is kind part: How many times I can think of even recently that I was not so kind (being blunt and not considerate with my words) to someone, thinking in a round about was that it was it was deserved. This is my natural way of handling things when hard times come.
Love does not envy: Not so much lately, but this does happen.
Love does not parade itself, is not puffed up: Unfortunately, being honest, I think there are times in my heart I find it parading itself being proud of different things at different times.
Does not behave rudely: Well I have lost there! Some of my blunt words have been rude. I hear sarcasm at times and mocking come out of my mouth to my closest loved ones. I see this a lot if I am trying to focus on something I want to do, and not being considerate. (like if I am on the computer or watching a show that I act rudely to interruptions)
Does not seek its own: That goes along with my rudeness when someone interrupts me doing what I want (seeking my own). I feel this is in my life much more than comes to mind right now.
Is not provoked: Don’t I wish! I can be so calm with my children, but some of them know how to drive me past all patience! I have one child that argues, one whines, one jokes and interrupts class, and the other lacks understanding even after I explain things to him over and over which throws me off the deep end. Thankfully my little one does not provoke me yet. OK, I am excited that God proclaims this is even possible to not be provoked!
Thinks no evil: I won’t share the evil thoughts that come in my mind, but they come. I think this is not so much those quick bad thoughts that you have no idea where they came from. I think it means any type of harmful or revengeful type thoughts towards others.
Does not rejoice in iniquity but rejoices in the truth: I think this means does not rejoice in sinful things, but rejoices in pure things of God. At this time, thankfully I am not recalling anything. I don’t doubt there is and I am not aware.
Love bears all things: I think at this point, I am bearing with what I am supposed to.
Believes all things: Hmm? What if they have a record of lying? OK, someone tell me what this means. I do know it hurts me when others do not trust me. Especially when I feel like I have a record of telling the truth. Like if I feel sick and cannot do my work, it hurts when I feel like people do not trust me and seem to be mad at me like I am not really feeling all that bad. Also there are times I have thought Scott should do certain things certain ways at work. I am recalling a time when I thought he should be able to come home early after working 2 weekends in a row. By my questioning his judgement and showing frustration with his decision, it showed distrust like I don’t believe what he is saying and don't trust him. That hurts him and is not loving him.
Hopes all things: I can see where love and not hoping for the best are opposites. I have seen myself not like certain people and in all honesty, I have hoped bad things for them. How awful! I think this is like Jonah not wanting the people of Nineveh to have good things after all the bad things they were doing.
Endures all things: sticks it out! Puts up with it. Wow! I am thinking of the girl in the bible who left her husband and cheated on him. She was later being sold as a slave where her husband happened to be, bought her and brought her back home. Now that is love! That is all of the above definitions of love!
Love never fails! This is something to ponder. I need God to change me from the inside out on love. I certainly do not like the thoughts of my life being NOTHING!
God, please work on me in all of these areas. Please let your perfect love shine through all I say and do. Please forgive my fleshly thoughts and create in me a clean heart. In Jesus name. Amen.
Monday, October 6, 2008
D12 had us rolling.
Sunday, September 28, 2008
The large family feeling hit today.
Saturday, September 27, 2008
The Twins
Thursday, September 18, 2008
M8's game pants
Thursday, September 4, 2008
I needed a good laugh!
Tuesday, August 5, 2008
News on Home School
The schools here are further behind than where we came from. I was too busy to worry with it and let them go at the pace the school was, but I was disappointed to find that in order to buy curriculum for the boys for this year, I am having to buy all the material I bought for M8 in K when we home schooled him for A6 to do for his first grade year. In other words, A6, our 1st grader, will need to learn what M8 learned in K.
Well, I have a great perspective on the matter and am feeling overjoyed to have this opportunity to HS them. I went to school to be a teacher, because I love kids and teaching. I also wanted a career that would work well with the family. I never dreamed I would be teaching my own kids! I also am excited that I am in charge of choosing the curriculum, doing things my way, and have no deadlines as if I were teaching for someone else. I get to pick my own hours and do not have to get my kids or myself fully ready daily. I do not have the drive time, parent time, and meetings I am forced to take. Oh, and I do not have to do "impress the parent or principal projects" ;-) hee hee) Just a few weeks ago, I was with a lady who showed me the one room schoolhouse her mother taught 12 different grades in all her life, so that gave me a good perspective that 4 or 5 is not so bad! Oh, did I mention I get to decide if there is homework!! Woo Hoo!
We are doing a new co-op this year that is run like a school. One day almost every week, we will go to co-op and each of the boys will go to 4 separate classes. It sounds like it is going to be a great year! A6 will be taking Art, Character First, PE, and Karate. M8 will be doing the Tour of the World, Election Study, Character First, and Botany. D11 has a writing class, Election Study, Art and Botany. N13 has a writing class, Taking stock in “the state we are in” (they work in groups and get to do a mock run in investing money online competing with other students across the state), General Science doing the labs at co-op, and art. N3 is attempting the preschool activities.
I am looking forward to our school year this year!
Saturday, August 2, 2008
Beth Moore Telecast to 716 sights!

When I heard Beth Moore was coming in town, I bought my ticket right away. It has been sitting in my closet for over 6 months. I had no idea it was going to be telecast to over 716 places internationally. One place was in my mother in law's home church. She was there watching the conference live with over 150 women.Tuesday, July 29, 2008
Well the challenge of having all 4 on 4 different teams has actually turned out to be not so difficult. Last year only N13 had practice, so that seemed to burden the family when everyone had their different agendas. With all 4 needing to go, it was actually a nice family outing each night.Here they are at weigh ins from last Saturday. They had a great time caravaning with all the 4 teams in decorated cars on the way for team pictures and weigh ins.
Sunday, July 20, 2008
My Brother's Family
Wednesday, July 16, 2008
How to Spice Up Your Blog - Invite Aunt Betty!
Introducing my dear sweet Aunt Betty. I was wondering how I could spice up my blog, and I found out how. I showed Aunt Betty how to comment. She went to town commenting on every post! She has other aliases such as "anonymous", "AB" (for Aunt Betty) and "Me". Sh! Don't tell her I told you. (Although I can honestly say, just because it says anonymous does not mean it is her. There could be impersonaters!) She is so much fun and loves Christ. You can tell by all her comments if you ever get time to read them. All you have to do is click the comment button at the bottom of every post to see what the ever famous Aunt Betty had to say. She is shown here with her much needed and deserved new, and I mean NEW, car. See, she is saying, "Whoo hoo!" She is such a blessing to me and my family. Thanks Aunt Betty for taking so much time for us, encouraging us and all the other great things you do. We LOVE you very much!!!!
Saturday, July 12, 2008
Ear Opening Story
She has had to go off and on medication like Prozac a few times due to typical thoughts in her head that we all get that got her depressed. She was told to expect that need for meds to come and go. Well, she was feeling the need for it again and took it to her husband. He said, “No.” She cried and pleaded with him, but he said she needed to pray about it. She knew God wanted her to honor her husband as her leader, so she felt trapped and just cried. Shortly after he left the room, she went to him to pray with her. They prayed for hours until the wee hours of the morning. Afterwards, he fell right to sleep, but she was unable to sleep just yet from all the emotion and just laid there. Soon she heard audible voices coming from her bathroom, from under her bed, then from another place in the house. Scared, she tried to nudge her hubby to wake to no avail and just pulled the covers up quivering. She said she has never heard God speak to her before, but that night, she heard Him. He said, “They never were in your head.” Wow! God allowed her to hear it audibly to show her the truth!
Once light was shed on the truth of what was going on, she was able to know who it was coming from and know it was a lie. She was healed from needing the meds. She still has times that she hears things “in her head” that she has to remind herself of the truth she experienced from God and is able to move forward.
Those voices that may be telling you, “You are no Christian. Look at how you act,” “No one wants to hear you,” “No one really cares about you,” “When will you ever get it?” , or many other condemning words that drag you down. God’s word will never condemn you! God’s words only point to the way out and give you a hope and fresh slate. He will convict you that you need to change, but there is a feeling of hope with His conviction, not feelings of misery.
If you have not heard one of my favorite songs, Voice of Truth, which is listed on my jukebox, now would be a great time to hear it!
And a favorite verse: “Take every thought captive to the obedience of Jesus Christ.” In other words there are thoughts that will take you down roads Jesus does not want. Take the thoughts you get, compare them to scripture and if they are not of God, they are not from God, which means there is no value! Lock it up and move on towards freedom in Christ!
Friday, July 11, 2008
NC with the Bakers




Granddad's buddy

Here is Granddad's buddy! N3 looks forward to Granddad waking up every morning and taking him outside. Granddad is so patient and plays with him just like my Papa (his daddy) did for me. He would play checkers with me for hours and just was never too busy for me. I prayed my kids would get the opportunity to be loved like Papa loved me. Thanks Dad!
Monday, June 30, 2008
FOOTBALL 1ST PRACTICE
M8

D11, M8 and A6 had their first practice for football today. D11 and M8 have played flag football, but this is their first attempt on tackle. I do not think they were prepared with how heavy that helmet is. M8 and D11 did enjoy their first practice.D11 RUNNING (to right)
A6 was not so thrilled with practice. You would have never known. He seemed to really enjoy it. With his injured toe, he got special treatment. Here he is getting to lay the ball down for the guys.
A6

___________________________________N13This is N13's 2nd year with tackle. He has been counting down the days. He sure has grown from last season.
By the way, they are on 4 different teams!!!! Help!
Saturday, June 28, 2008
VBS week
Vacation Bible School was lots of fun this past week. Here is our highlight video which shows N3, A6, M8 and D11. Can you find them?
N13 was the only one who did not get to participate. He was too old. He could have been a helper, but he needed to finish up his Math and a couple other subjects for the year. He is so excited to be done. Me too!
Dad is looking for a car. That has been an experience. We are learning what not to do as we go. Pray we will find an economical car that fits his needs. Scott went with him today, and I went yesterday. Dad needs us to tell the dealer, "No." He is too easy to fall into what the dealer wants.
Now we are looking forward to a trip to the cabin with the Bakers and a visit to Jenny Wiley State Park. When we are back, we will show some photos. So looking forward to seeing our old friends and a vacation!
Wednesday, June 18, 2008
A6's Big Day

Saturday, June 14, 2008
A Special Visitor
We were blessed by a visit from some new friends, the Main family, this Tuesday. When S2 started singing, I just had to run and get the camera. This is N3's buddy. This 2 year old angel is singing, "We stand and lift up our hands. For the joy of the Lord is our strength. We bow down and worship Him now. How great, how awesome is He! Together we sing. Holy is the Lord......." Thank you S2 for your beautiful song!
Friday, June 6, 2008
our first blog

I guess I should note my hottest parenthood memory of the day so far. N3 has been potty training. I took him shopping and forgot all about asking if he needed to go potty. While we were in the Walmart parking lot, and I was unloading the cart, I looked over and he had climbed out of the van and was leaving his mark on the pavement! We quickly had a lesson about where to go potty. I hope it sank in those precious big brown innocent eyes.











